Life, Love, Happiness and Living Consciously

Speaker at Lunch Club October 14, 2020

Life, Love, Happiness and Living Consciously

Hello. My name is Shirley Di Simone.

I am a certified Hypnotherapist and Life Coach. I received my certification in 2015 at the Florida Institute of Hypnotherapy.

I know that I have found my life’s purpose. Because it is so rewarding for me to make such positive changes in someone’s life. I can’t even explain to you how this work has actually changed my own life in such a positive way.

So today, I would like to pose a question. What is life?

This is the question of the ages it seems. Happiness is leaning on knowing this answer.

We may go through hard times and times of joy. And for each phase of our life it is but a learning, a lesson an experience.

Today we find ourselves in an unprecedented world of hate, pandemics, riots, political arguments and uncertainty. But are we not in the search of truth?

We must realize that all truth comes from within, and within we must love. Love ourselves, our sisters and brothers – whomever they might be. A family member, a co-worker, or a stranger that we may pass along the way.

We must learn to live from a place of love, because within love lies all truths and happiness.

My saying is “Always live from a place of love” and “If you do everything from a place of love, you can never make a wrong decision”. In fact information reaches your heart at least 30 seconds before it reaches your brain. I feel this is our ultimate goal in life.

Let anything that brings you sadness, hate, anger or fear, fall away. We are meant to live life happily and in a blissful state.

Move away from these things that steal your joy your bliss. It’s not really that hard to do, it is in fact a choice, a conscious choice.

And that is the place where we need to be…living consciously, living in the moment, because this moment is all that we have. In this moment is where everything happens. This is where you make your changes and choices for your future. It all happens here!

Living in the past can bring sadness, hurt, fear or anger.

The truth is that our bodies do not know the difference between past events or current happening events. Your body reacts in the same way, it is responding to that event that you are reliving as if it is happening…again!

So unhealed emotions create physical symptoms later in life, such as anxiety, guilt, lack of self-confidence and depression as well as physical symptoms in your body such as pain.

This is how hypnotherapy is so effective. I heal the painful and unhealed emotions that you are carrying around with you that are stopping you from moving forward or living your best life. Once the emotions are healed and released, you can let go. You can actually feel the release in your body after your sessions with me.

This is done by accessing a very natural state that you find yourself in many times during the day. This state is referred to as hypnogogic. This is what it is called when you are in your car and drive to your destination without paying any attention to your driving at all! Some people call it “highway hypnosis”!!! This happens because your conscious and subconscious mind are super aware. So during your session with me you will find this experience positive, pleasant and relaxing. There are many misconceptions about hypnotherapy but be assured it is a very positive and life changing therapy. Combining Hypnosis and Therapy. As simple as that. I am very confident as a hypnotherapist that I can bring you to your desired outcome.

I will give you an example of a very amazing interaction with a client. This woman that contacted me had such anxiety and panic attacks she was afraid to leave her house. It took her three tries to get to me but after the therapy session she looked at me in amazement and asked “how did you do that?!” I responded “do what??. She said “I can’t stop smiling! Is that weird? I haven’t been this happy in a very long time”. This was after her fist session. This is how healing hypnotherapy is!

Life Coaching is a journey of self-discovery. A Life Coach looks at your past to help you with your present.

Starting from where you stand right now…what is your ultimate goal? Life Coaching helps you bridge that gap and visualize your outcome. By identifying obstacles and creating motivation. By looking at your current situation and linking to past events. Understanding your personal values and belief systems, I can connect you to your own personal wisdom and by seeing options differently and perhaps with a new perspective. I will help set you on a new life journey.

With Life Coaching we will work together on a plan for whatever you are wanting to achieve. This could be a life changing event, a new job, or just getting yourself out of a rut and looking for a new perspective. I find that many people seek my help for these very things and with Life Coaching we will work on a plan to help you succeed on your journey!

After a life changing or altering event, perhaps what you once knew as your reality has shifted or changed and self-discovery is needed.

Myself and my clients work together on a vision of moving forward, recreating a new life, a new idea – manifesting their new realities.

But overall, I wanted to leave you with this thought – focus on the best possible outcome that you would like to see happen. By using visualization you can set your intent on creating that vision that you hold, something in your life, in a relationship, or for the world as a whole.

We are all connected! Me and you and the person sitting next to you, every one of us in this room today. Collectively we can change the world! We are that powerful as a collective. Visualize your best possible scenario always in your life. Live consciously and “live always from a place of love”.

I see clients via Zoom or in person, by appointment. I do have a website it is BeHappyGuru.com. I can also be reached by phone or through Facebook. I also give no cost consultations so you may contact me to discuss your questions on Life Coaching, Hypnotherapy and how I can meet your individual needs.